Who doesn’t want an intimate toy that’s as soft and fresh as new after an intense romantic encounter? I’ve been messing with the cleaning combination for this silicone Vibrating cock ring ring over the years and I’ve got to say this is the greatest version yet. It’s the ultimate comfort routine after those “night workouts.”

Each “ingredient” in the process—water temperature, cleaning product and rubbing method—works with the others. Accurate measurements mean that every step is met with the delicate and smooth touch of premium silicone.

Let’s move right into the good stuff you need to know. We’ll discuss everything from the best detergent to the optimum water temperature, to the greatest tip for air-drying and the dangers you definitely should avoid:

I love to add my own “next level” to cleaning every day! The real kicker is to use warm water (30-40 degrees C) and work it up into a lather with the pads of my fingertips. I use a special sex toy cleaner, not harsh ordinary soaps. This is safer and more effective and eliminates any lingering lubricants or bodily fluids.

Great option is pH-neutral liquid soap or baby wash (fragrance-free). They also do a great job keeping the silicone clean and looking new when applied with warm water.

Just be sure to turn the device off fully before cleaning it! (If the charging port is magnetic, keep it dry.) Remove the inner core first if the device is battery operated. And don’t boil it with water! Pure silicone is heat resistant but the circuit board and micro-lithium battery inside can’t take that kind of heat, clearly. The higher the heat, the more likely the battery could swell or even burst, suddenly making your cherished vibrating ring useless.